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Keith Ferrazzi launch of “Who’s Got Your Back” at Arianna Huffington’s home

We’re proud to be associated with such a powerful message.  Who’s got your back is not just some new flavor of the month self-help book.  Our connectedness to others that are not just telling us what we want to hear, but instead telling us what we need to hear has been lacking.  This is the beginning of an amazing change for those willing to embrace what it means to have true lifelines and to be a lifeline to others.

Encourage Success – give praise for character

Dave DeRoos of CityGate Associates is a  mentor of mine that has graciously offered advice on character development in addition to  providing me with a sounding board for questions about raising a responsible daughter.  He introduced me to an organization called Character Training Institute,  Character First!® that provides Character training.  Dave is great at giving praise and rewards employees and associates for quality character behavior using the Three Steps of Praise as Character First suggests:

  1. Give the definition of the character quality (there are 49 qualities according to Character First!).
  2. Offer a specific illustration of how it was demonstrated.
  3. Explain the benefit to you and/or others.

Here’s an example using the character quality of dependability:

Dependability is sacrifice and consistent performance.  These past weeks you’ve met every milestone.  Thanks to your dependability our client feels that we’re reliable and will give us more work and I trust you to deliver as promised.

It takes practice and I always work on integrating this high level, high character praise into my interactions with others.